Joy Diaries

  Hey Guys! Welcome back to my blog. So sorry for the inconsistency I've been mentally down for sometime now but I'm feeling a bit better. I promise to try my best to be consistent on this blog and i want to use this medium to thank all my subscribers for subscribing and I'm totally grateful for making it possible to hit 215 subscribers in a month .I'm totally grateful for the love and support and i strongly believe that we'll make it to 500 subscribers before the year ends😊 with your undying support by sharing to your friends ,ensuring they subscribe and they also share to their friends. If you want to know what has been going on with me within this past week please comment "YES" and give this blog 25 comments . So into the blog for today ,I'll be talking about 10 rules I've learnt about life.      Everyone has gone through some life challenging experiences that have taught you some rules about life and how to make you live a better, fulfilled an...

     Hey Guys! I'm glad to have you back on my blog. How are you guys doing? Hope your weekend was fun? I had a busy weekend but was all good. Our blog for today is to uplift a soul. Everybody has one issue or the other that gives us reason to feel sad or change our present happy mood into a sad and depressing mood. Situations like that happens to every human even the most happy person you know of has a problem that weighs him or  her down.     I know this period has made a lot of people  think about their lives and dwell on the problems they are facing but I have a good news for you all😊. According to one word of encouragement  Ed Sheeran gave to his fans in one of his interview   “Everything will be okay in the end. If it's not okay, then it's not the end.” This is to say that your present situation will one day be a story to tell people and in telling people  about this story you'll also tell them about how you over came that si...

           Hello Everyone😊!Welcome to my blog. Psychological abuse is one of the worse type of abuse that can ever happen to anyone.This can be defined as when a person attempts to frighten,control or isolate you.Psychological abuse not only happen between spouses but between parents and children.This can be either negative name calling💢,insulting,belittling your accomplishment or hard work,comparing to other children,blaming or making you feel like a terrible or bad person and so on.     Psychological Abuse is common around us most especially in families by parents to their children.Yet few understand the psychological abuse enough to spot it.This can be so devastating as physical abuse  sometimes affect your inner thoughts and also exert control over your life.In our society,parents or elderly people feel rising their voice and calling their children all manner of abusive names is a way of training and correcting them to the right directi...

     Hello Guys!Welcome to my blog.Hope your week went well?And hope you are staying safe and observing all safety measures?So i'm sure you already know what this blog is all about.Attitude is very essential as it is the second thing people check when they approach you.I know there's a saying that the way you dress is the way you'll be addressed but i believe your attitude is all you need to leave either a good or a bad impression about yourself to the people you meet.It is also the way people would address you.If you have a nice attitude people would approach you politely, associate and form a close relationship with you .      Attitude exists in every person.It helps to define your identity,guide your actions and influence how you judge people and how you are judged.It is also a summary of a persons past experience.Have you ever wondered why some people change their attitude.Let's say Mr Andrew is known to have a very bad attitude towards people around hi...

    Hey Guys! Welcome to my blog. How are y'all doing? Apologies for my late post🙏. From the title of my blog you already know what this blog is all about. So we all know money is our number one language. If you don't need money then you don't deserve to be in this planet (smiles☺️) just kidding. In our country money can be said in different languages depending on your tribe.Money can also be called Ego, Owo, Kudi, Igho,Dolor and so on. If you can identify their tribes from the native translation of money which I just listed above, please do leave your attempt in the comment section down below👇.      Money is an essential commodity that helps run your life and as such it is also one of the greatest difficulties we face as  young people to spend money circumspectly. From my own perspective and what has worked for me, I have 8 ways on how I spend my money circumspectly.  1. Drafting out  your budget  2. Drafting your scale of preference. In o...

     Hi Guys!Welcome to my blog!So today's blog is for some certain people or individuals who we know them as Debtors A.K.A [onigbese 😊].They always try to blackmail us by reminding us of their closeness. Most especially very close friends who feel because we own a business,they become entitled to patronizing our business on credit and then make it a habit.Some even feel that the business owner should be grateful for their friend's patronage.    The fact about life is that when young people still in Uni try to start life, we tend to start by owning a small business such as clothes,Jewelry,Perfumes and other things that can attract people of within our age range.Allowing close friends patronize your business on credit is very unhealthy for a small business.Mind you they are still the very ones that will stop patronizing when the business crumbles and then start patronizing someone else without oweing them.This is common in our society both those who own business...

    Hi Everyone😊!Welcome back to my blog. I know i was suppose to upload yesterday but i was too tired to type so i decided to upload first thing this morning.Apologies guys🙏. Have your actions ever been misunderstood or  misperceived by your parents or older people?It is something we all find very annoying and confusing.This blog is centered on Nigerian parents because i'm a Nigerian🇳🇬. As a young person i've come to understand that everyone in my life is listening to me through a powerful filter[the filter of their own needs]which transmutes what they hear.There's a phrase by Abraham Lincoln that action speaks louder than words but not all action is interpreted in the correct meaning of words.      I know Nigerian parents have their own way of reasoning things.Let's take for example, you asking your parents for money ,the first reaction you get is why and what do you need money for? .Don't get me wrong it's very okay to ask, when you tell them you ne...