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GHOSTING👻👻👻

       Have you ever been ghosted? Or have you ghosted someone before? I know some of you might be unfamiliar with the word "Ghosting" but not to worry,trust me after defining the term you will find out and understand that it's a word you are familiar with but a rarely used term.Ghosting can be defined as a term used to describe the practice or ceasing of communication or contact with a party,partner, friend or even a family member without any warning or justification and then ignoring attempt to reach out or communicate by said party,partner,friend or a family member. 

      I know this definition is so lenty ⦃smiles😊⦄but to make it simple,Ghosting is a practice of a sudden end to a personal relationship with someone without an explanation and without communication. I know you are saying ‟ooh😮‟ i understand now ⦃smiles😄⦄.Ghosting has happened to everyone no matter your age,status or tribe.It is either you have been ghosted or you ghosted someone.So let me tell you guys my ghosting experience, in this situation i ghosted someone  for a good reason even though it might sound funny to you guys but it was something i needed to do.Some people deserve ghosting while some don't.

    Here goes my ghosting experience. There was this guy i met in school.We started talking as friends but i began to notice that he likes saying some disgusting things about people especially girls whenever i'm around him.I spoke to him as a friend that i don't like him saying such things about people  but he continued behaving the same way and whenever i dislike something about someone as my friend my intention is to help make you see reasons why you need to  change in that aspect into a much better person.So i started drawing myself from him,he'll want to gist with me but i started cooking up excuses that's how i stopped talking to him. Luckily,it's hard for us to bump into each other in school ,i stopped replying his text, calling and picking his calls and it even got to the extent of blocking him.Guys do u think he deserved what i did? Let's forget about him trying to be free around me.The right word to say is that he was been a gossip and that i don't like.

    So guys,i'll love to know your own ghosting story by commenting down below if you ghosted someone or if you've been ghosted by someone.Thanks for reading to the very last of this blog and please don't forget to subscribe if you are yet to also share on your social media platform. Bye✌

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  1. Ghosting ghosting! 🤔🤔 I'd say its okay to ghost people that are not adding anything of value to your life

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    1. Very true 👍. Some people don't add any value but they try to make you change for the bad because they have a bad character

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  2. Please guys I'll love to see your own opinion 🙏🙏

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  3. Nice one dear. . . We all had this person that'll surely ghost us a d the one we'll ghost too. But the true fact is that . There's a reason to it. Just that we all can't define or identify the main reason. . Id I'd love to say more but. It'll be too much.

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  4. This is educating, wow, term "ghosting" add to my vocabulary. Thank you so much for this educative piece.

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  5. Lol..I'm not proud to say I'm guilty of ghosting from pple...I'll work on that thank u hun

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