Psychological Abuse is common around us most especially in families by parents to their children.Yet few understand the psychological abuse enough to spot it.This can be so devastating as physical abuse sometimes affect your inner thoughts and also exert control over your life.In our society,parents or elderly people feel rising their voice and calling their children all manner of abusive names is a way of training and correcting them to the right direction.If in their own time their parents psychologically dealt with them to mould them into who they are then i will boldly say that they grew up in a toxic way and it's not a way of making a child have a great future.You start believing you are those terrible things that was said to you.For example you snap a picture not exposing any part of your body,not looking seductive and then an elderly person sees that picture and start saying you were trying to seduce someone,how shocking and sad can that be because you know how it is that you can't try to explain yourself to that elderly person which could be your parents otherwise you will be called rude and get more insult for trying to tell them you have no such intentions or thoughts.
Our society needs to stop doing this to people.When i mean society those that make up the society [family and friends]need to stop this.It makes people feel extremely lonely and insecure about sharing their thoughts to close family members .It makes people even commit suicide thinking they are worthless and they are better-of dead.If you are reading this blog and you abuse people because you are older than them or you think that is the best way to train them you just need to stop it because you are causing great harm than good as they would grow up thinking of themselves that way and a way to bring up their own children.If you are the one here being abused always remember not to loose yourself respect and dignity because it's a phase that will surely pass. It may look too long but i promise you it will be a thing of the past.And always remember that your efforts are great and the sky is just your starting point.Darling, i want you to know that you are loved by God,you are who God says you are,you are brilliant, beautiful, handsome and unique in your special way so don't let those words break you down because you are God's art/made.And you'll shine so bright for the world to see how preciously you were made.
This blog is written because i know most young people face this in several families, societies, countries and world at large.I'll leave you with these scriptures to boost your self dignity and to put a smile on your face.Romans 8։31-32,Galatians 2։20,John 3։16 and my favorite scripture Romans 8։28.I really hope you find this blog insightful and enjoyable.Please comment down below👇and share to as many people as possible you never can tell who needs this blog and by reading this you have lifted a sad and lonely person and also put a smile on someone's face.Don't run away after reading make sure you subscribe if you are yet to.Bye✌
Nice write up. Most African parents need to see this cos they are so judgemental
ReplyDeleteThank you so much. I hope they see it too☺️☺️
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DeleteLovely write up 🙌🏾🙌🏾 Thanks for the scriptures
ReplyDeleteThank you. I'm glad you appreciate those scriptures🙏🙏
DeleteYou are good
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