INDEPENDENCE

   

 Hi Guys!👋. If you are a returning subscriber Welcome back to my blog. If you are just joining my blog for the first time “WELCOME”👏. So straight into today's blog. As the topic implies, Independence is under rated in our country because of the part of the world where we live in. Cultural beliefs and norms of the society makes it difficult for young adult[Youths] to do so most specially girls. So many people still depend on their parents. It's okay to depend on your parents don't get me wrong, but if after becoming a youth or an adult you have nothing to say is giving you a little source of income aside your parents allowance then there is a problem. Youths who are still dependent on their parents for every single thing without them being able to fend for them selves needs to sit down and come up with good and legal ideas to give them a source of income aside their parents allowance . Independence comes with a great responsibility. As an individual if you can't be responsible or accountable for yourself  or some of your little needs while you are still in the university, you need to know that you are still a child not a teenager or a youth. 

        Independence comes with power and like they say “Knowledge is Power” and without knowledge you won't be aware that there is more in life than just been dependent on your parents. Trust me there comes a time when your parents will get tired of giving you allowance then you'll start been compared with other youths, you'll start  giving account on what you need the money for and might even get insult from them before they give you money. All of these can be avoided once you have a good sense of responsibility in life on time. I'll share 3 lights on steps to become Independent while still living with your parents.

1. You can learn a skill and become really good in it, in the case of academics you can sell your knowledge if you know you are good in an area of your studies by holding tutorials, you can become a social media manager, a model, a graphics designer, you can learn a foreign language and become an interpreter in big events and get paid really good amount of money. There is a lot you can do while still living with your parents. This is the first step of becoming Independent in life before getting your 9-5 dream job.

2.If you feel you are financially strong enough to stop collecting allowance from your parents that is absolutely fine. Infact, they might still continue giving you allowance because of the willingness to fend for yourself. Like i always say “Money can never be too much“😄 but it will get to some extent where you'll just have to stop getting money from your parents and start sending them money every month. Nothing is too small cause they will understand you are doing your best. By doing this your respect will be given and you'll be proud of yourself. You know there is this feeling you get when you send money to someone not to even mention your parents. You'll be so proud of yourself😉

3. Lastly, Save. I can't get over the idea of saving. Open a private account where you save part of the money you get from your little hustle or business. Saving is one of  the best decision that can happen to anyone because when you are in need of support financially your savings is always there to help you out. And from this same savings, you can decide to rent and move into your own apartment. At this point this is when you become totally independent. This is the level i pray to get someday so help me God. 

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